Why Are We Not ‘Officially’ Dating?

Hint: Someone’s needs are being ignored.

A lot of us just want to be loved.

Exclusivity: ‘Are you seeing anyone else?’

Conflating Monogamy and Commitment

Monogamy is not the same thing as commitment.

Fear of Vulnerability: ‘I just have too much emotional baggage right now’

Someone’s Embarrassment: ‘Am I just sleeping over, or are we going out?’

Someone’s not that interested: ‘I just don’t have time right now’

A Summary: It’s all about needs and acceptance

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